My turn to look after you – caring for parents living with dementia

Dementia Australia Ambassador Rachel Corbett spent her 30s supporting and caring for her parents, who both lived with dementia. 

The podcaster, television and radio presenter described that period of her life as ‘a hellish juggle’ that had also given her a greater connection to her parents.

Rachel has shared her story in season two of Dementia Australia’s Hold the Moment podcast – a series focusing on the experiences of people who love and care for someone living with dementia.

“I did have a difficult time with both my parents but it connected us in a way that might not have ever happened if they were both well,” she said.

“Relationships are complex.”

Rachel was in her 20s when her mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease and spent the following years supporting her mum while building a career and juggling a busy life. 

While dealing with the disease was challenging, she said that period also created positive change in their relationship.

“She gave me the biggest gift because it really helped me to see myself differently,” Rachel said.

“Being with somebody like that, who needs help and who is afraid and who feels safe around you, it makes you start to feel really positive about yourself too because you can be that for that person.”

When Rachel’s father was diagnosed with Lewy body dementia her caring responsibilities continued.

“I used to say during that time: ‘I am living the life of a 60-year-old right now’ because I was in a carer role at such a young age,” she said. 

Having counselling was instrumental in helping her to manage such a challenging period of her life.

“That’s what got me through – getting support. Having a professional to talk to throughout this period, for me, was really important,” she said.

While Rachel’s carer experience was challenging, it was also a privilege.

“It's genuinely one of the things that I'm most proud of doing in my life,” she said.

Listen to Rachel’s story

Visit the Dementia Australia website to listen to the full episode featuring Rachel Corbett – ‘The juggling act:  Caring for a loved one with dementia’.

You can also listen to and follow Hold the Moment wherever you get your podcasts.

Looking for support or advice?

Caring for someone living with dementia can be overwhelming, but you’re not alone.

If you would like support or advice about caring for a loved one with dementia, or any other dementia-related query, contact the National Dementia Helpline on 1800 100 500 or via our live chat.

The Dementia Australia Library provides free access to a comprehensive collection of print and digital resources about dementia and is available to everyone.

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